Thursday, February 06, 2014

Family under construction: part 3 - trying again


Our first IUI failed. We decided to try again immediately so the third day from the start of my period we begun with the hormone shots again… had the trigger shot on November 3rd and the AI procedure on November 4th.


The second 2WW were worst that the first one. Every time I went to the bathroom I was expecting to see signs of spotting, signs that something was wrong.  Then I decided to do some research online about what to do to help implantation… and I follow the advices that sounded best to me… I stopped exercising, rested as much as possible, I ate pineapple cores the first 5 days after IUI, took my prenatal pills and started to eat and drink as if I was already pregnant (no alcohol, no raw meat, etc…).


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On November 18th I took my first pregnancy test and it came with a faint positive…. But positive nonetheless for the first time ever... I could believe my eyes… I took the test at 4am because I wasn't able to hold my pee no longer and when I woke DH to check he said that it looked as if it was positive… so I called my doctor first thing and they said to wait two more days and test again…. TWO MORE DAYS!

I was going crazy… so on November 20th I took the second test at 7am…. And it came back positive again and darker this time…. I couldn't believe it yet… so I went straight to the pharmacy with the pregnancy test and asked the girl at the counter what she thought about it…. Funny thing, the pharmacy was full of grandma’s (it was early in the day, like 8 am) and they all said it was a positive as big as a house and all the grandmas came and greet me on the news… I was SO HAPPY! I've got my BFP! I was going to be a mum!


I called my doctor and he said to go for the first ultrasound to confirm the pregnancy in two weeks (another two dreadful weeks…) On December 2nd we went for the ultrasound and Dr. Hijano said he could see the sack but couldn't see the baby… he said that implantation might have been late and to come back in 10 days for another ultrasound…

I was so nervous and scare… those 10 days were hell… On December 13th we were back to his office and this time the ultrasound showed the baby and we heard the heartbeats! We were so relieved and so happy! We called our mothers and let them know… my mum cried and cheered and all you would expect from a future grandma… my brother was so happy and already planning to which concerts he will take his future godson or goddaughter… I asked them not to tell yet because people said that the first 13 weeks are very delicate and I wanted to be past that period to be telling all the world… but my wishes weren’t granted… more on that later.

Dr. Hijano asked us if we wanted him to do the follow up of the pregnancy but we weren't sure because we wanted to have the follow up in the Hospital Quirón which was closer to our house... biggest blunder... we later realised.

I called the hospital and got an appointment with an OB (not my usual one because she was fully booked until the end of January) on December 23rd. According to the IUI procedure the baby should has been 9 weeks by that time but when we had the appointment the Dr. said that the baby measured 8 weeks 2 days and we were able to hear the heartbeat again. That was so nice… 


But I wasn't sure about the doctor. She didn't say much, she didn't explained much, and she only said that I had a myoma of 2-3 cm but not to worry because that was “normal. She sends us for the test for the first trimester and gave us our next appointment for January 23rd, one month after.

My DH said he liked the doctor that she seemed nice… I didn't quite like her because she wasn't informative enough and she seemed distracted all the time… she even wrote her name instead of mine in the test order!

So Christmas came and with it a lot of stress due to family “situations”. Family were scattered during the holidays. We are used to have big family parties for the holidays but this year we ended up being only 4 at Christmas and my mother-in-law didn't even wanted to spend New Year’s Eve with us… which added to the stress of the holidays.

On January 3rd we went for the blood work and tests. All seemed good.

But...

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